We’ve all heard that expression in relationships one person is the ‘gardener’ and the other is the ‘rose.’ Meaning that one person usually ‘cultivates’ and gives more to the relationship, while sacrificing their own needs, and the other is the ‘taker.’ These zodiac signs tend to meet the needs of others, while neglecting their own in order for control and to feel secure in their relationships. This behavior may have something to do with the stars, so check out the four most co-dependent zodiac signs below.
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What is Co-Dependency?
Codependency is defined as “a relationship dynamic where one person assumes the role of ‘the giver,’ sacrificing their own needs and well-being for the sake of the other, ‘the taker.’
It is also known as “relationship addiction” because people with codependency often form or maintain relationships that are one-sided, emotionally destructive and/or abusive.
The disorder was first identified about ten years ago as the result of years of studying interpersonal relationships in families of alcoholics. Co-dependent behavior is learned by watching and imitating other family members who display this type of behavior.
We all struggle in striking a healthy balance in our relationships—romantic or otherwise—but there are those among us who have a more difficult time.
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If you or your partner is seeking help for codependency, it’s important to seek the help of an expert mental health professional.
Characteristics Of Co-Dependent People Are:
- An exaggerated sense of responsibility for the actions of others
- A tendency to confuse love and pity, with the tendency to “love” people they can pity and rescue.
- A tendency to do more than their share, all of the time.
- A tendency to become hurt when people don’t recognize their efforts.
- An unhealthy dependence on relationships. The co-dependent will do anything to hold on to a relationship; to avoid the feeling of abandonment.
- An extreme need for approval and recognition
- A sense of guilt when asserting themselves
- A compelling need to control others.
- Lack of trust in self-and/or others
- Fear of being abandoned or alone.
- Difficulty identifying feelings.
- Rigidity/difficulty adjusting to change.
- Problems with intimacy/boundaries
- Chronic anger
- Lying/dishonesty
- Poor communications
- Difficulty making decisions.
4 Signs Most Prone to ‘Co-Dependent’ Behaviors
Cancer (June 21 – July 22): Cancers are known for their nurturing and caring nature, which can sometimes lead them to put the needs of others before their own. They may also have a tendency to be clingy and possessive in relationships.
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Cancers can prioritize others’ needs, potentially to the detriment of their own. They crave emotional security and closeness, which can sometimes lead to extreme clinginess.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20): Pisces are deeply emotional and empathetic, which can make them susceptible to getting swept up in the emotions of others. They may also struggle with setting personal boundaries and saying no.
Pisces often merge with their partners’ feelings, making it difficult to comprehend their own. Their passionate desire for connection can create codependency if not balanced with healthy individuality.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21): Scorpios are over the top the most passionate and intense sign, and they crave deep connection with others.
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This can sometimes backfire and lead them to become overly reliant on their partner for any emotional support. They also have a common tendency to be jealous and possessive.
Their ‘my way or the highway’ approach to relationships might lead to codependency if not managed with vigilance.
Libra (September 23 – October 21): Known for their desire for harmony and balance, Libras may prioritize their partner’s happiness over their own, potentially neglecting their needs. Their fear of conflict can lead to people-pleasing and codependency.
Sharing the same desire for harmony, Libras might create a seemingly peaceful dynamic where individual opinions and needs are suppressed to avoid conflict.
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Conclusion
It’s important to remember that relationship behavior will be influenced not only by the stars but by a variety of factors, including their various life experiences, personal values, and attachment style.
